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1 Corinthians 13

2012-02-13T12:50:00.000-08:00

I am reading a book right now (actually second time to read it because it is so good!), A Mother's Heart by Jean Fleming, that wrote 1 Corinthians 13 from a mother's perspective. Since the subject of LOVE is on a lot of minds right now, I thought I would share it with you with some changes from my own experience...

1 Corinthians 13

If I read the best parenting book, attend the best seminar, and listen to the best mother's advice but do not love my family, I am nothing.
If I keep my home perfectly clean, decorate it to look like a spread from Southern Living, look like a super model, and cook gourmet, organic meals but do not love my family, I am nothing.
If I disciple college students, teach a women's bible study, and pursue creative hobbies but do not love my family, I am nothing.

Love changes diapers, cleans up messes, and sings the same song over and over again.
Love is kind even when my child spills my coffee all over the floor.
Love is kind even when I am tired and frazzled.
Love is not jealous of others who have fewer children, more free time to pursue their own interest or family in town to help.
Love doesn't try to impress others with my abilities or knowledge as a mother and wife.
Love doesn't scream at the kids or disrespect my husband.
Love doesn't feel cheated because I didn't get to do what I wanted to do today...read, craft, take a nap, call a friend or exercise.
Love doesn't lose my temper easily.
Love doesn't assume the worst about my family even when they make mistakes.
Love doesn't rejoice when other children misbehave making my children look good. Love is genuinely happy when others to right.
Love bears even the worst temper tantrum, endures every sleepless night, and hopes for the most abundant and fruitful life for my family.

I pray that I can share this kind of love to my family today and forever! Lord please help me.

Happy Valentine's Day!

Elijah almost 7 months

2012-01-24T14:40:00.000-08:00

Our sweet, happy, curious little baby boy Elijah will turn 7 months on February 1st, and I am not sure where the time went. I am so excited to watch him grow and hit new milestones. Like learning to crawl, giggle (he has the sweetest laugh), coo and eat solid foods. I had to capture this little boy eating because he LOVES food. He is almost too excited to eat. Take a look:

Last week was another big milestone...well probably for me. I left him in the nursery for the first time. I am sure I could have left him in there earlier, but it was always easy to be right there for him if he needed to nurse or just needed me...I think it made me just feel better. I know older moms are thinking...oh just wait until they go off to kindergarten, on their first field trip, on their first date, college, or when the get married...and I just want to say I don't know how you did it! That has got to be so hard!

Well, I guess the best way to think about it is I am daily lending both of my children over to the Lord since He is the one protecting and guiding them ultimately. Elijah was dedicated to the Lord a few months ago, and it is a good reminder that the Lord has great things in store for Grace and him. So, whether in the nursery or on the football field, God is strong and He loves him more than I can imagine.

Here are some highlights from Elijah's dedication that I never published. God has great plans for you little man. Thank you to my grandfather and husband for making this day so special.

Songs

2012-01-10T12:10:00.000-08:00

This Christmas we had many family members we wanted to give gifts to. I usually make gifts because I really enjoy to, but I was running out of time with two little ones. I decided to make everyone a CD playlist of Cliff and I's favorite songs of 2011. These songs have truly inspired and impacted us over this last year. So, in spirit of the new year, I wanted to share with you the mix we came up with:

Liberty - Shane and Shane
Glorious Day - the Village Church
Your Love is Strong - Jon Foreman
His Glory Appears - Hillsong Live
Awakening - Chris Tomlin
10,000 Reasons (Bless the Lord) - Matt Redman
Redeeming Love - Amy Stroup
I will Exalt You - Hillsong Live
Overcome - New Life Worship
Beautiful Things - Gungor
Never Alone - Barlow Girl
You Hold me now - Hillsong Live

We have been listening a lot to our playlist at home. Grace has begun to know the songs fairly well. She also loves to sing along. Here is a sample...

Happy New Year

2012-01-05T11:48:00.000-08:00

It has been a nice, long holiday break! I am trying to catch up this week from our two weeks of Christmas festivities, traveling and entertaining family. It was very busy but so much fun, and it went by way too fast. The kiddos did so great traveling and were so much fun to be around. Cliff and I have endured through some very tough car rides with Grace, and we were so proud of how well she did this time around. It was so fun watching Grace really take in all of the newness of gift opening, lights, interacting with family, traveling and new places. And 6 month Elijah was as easy as could be. We want to thank all of our family for providing a very special holiday for all of us. We love you!

Here are a few pictures from our adventures this Christmas....

Christmas in Marble Falls...

Riding Mimi and Papa Fish's golf cart

Checking out fish

Making / Eating Gingerbread Houses

Eating more gingerbread houses with Mimi, Nana and Mama


Special Dinner with Mimi, Papa Fish, Cynde, John and us

Christmas in Austin....

Christmas morning with all the second cousins

Grace LOVES her second cousin Selah. Playing with a new present.

Cliff and Elijah in the boat at Aquarena Springs

Looking at fish with Aunt Missa

Christmas in Brenham...

At the Blue Bell Factory with Nananette and Papa Jim

Life is Different

2011-12-11T19:07:00.000-08:00

The days are getting colder. Our Christmas decorations are up. Christmas music is playing. I am waiting until the last minute, again, to decide on what Christmas presents to buy or make this year. But there is something different about this season this year. A few things I want to mention so I won't forget in the coming years how precious, how beautiful, how challenging and how rewarding this time in my life is. Here are a few...

Watching a baby boy discover his hands for the first time
Witnessing a big sister laugh deep from her belly as her baby brother tries to mimic the same laugh
Walking into Elijah's room to be greeted with the biggest, most precious smile you have ever seen as he bobbles his head up and down with delight
Listening to Grace proudly pronounce, "tree lights" and "ornaments" over and over and over again
Watching Elijah pull Grace's hair as he squeals with delight
Watching Grace run through an empty soccer field.
Cherishing the evenings when kiddos are asleep to chat and unwind with my best friend.
Letting Grace attempt to feed Elijah with a spoon. She is so careful and concerned.
Seeing Grace glow when she returns from a "date" with her dad.
Cuddling with Elijah as he nurses and rests without a care in the world.
Waking up early to work out and study my bible when one of the two little ones decides to get up too.

Thank you Lord for every new memory this season.

Thanksgiving

2011-11-28T11:50:00.000-08:00

"Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name." Psalm 100:4

This Thanksgiving I attempted to cook for the first time! Cliff's dad came down to spend it with us, and I have got to say everything turned out really nice! I did take some short cuts such as buying a smoked turkey and Pepperidge Farms stuffing mix...but I was proud to say the least! I even made a pretty yummy pumpkin cheesecake. Thank you Ray for spending it with us!

We also took some time to share what we were thankful for and added it to our thankful tree. Grace had fun putting on and taking off the craft paper leaves. There is so much to be thankful for this season, but here are a few of the things I am thankful for...

JESUS. You are my God, my savior, my provider, my comforter, my friend, my father, my guide, my healer, my protector and my rock. Without you I could never be the wife, mother and friend I want to be. Without you I wouldn't have the beautiful life I have, the joy I have and the peace I have. I am so thankful you pursued me and saved me.

CLIFF. You have brought so much joy and purpose to my life. The dreams and the plans we have together bring so much life to me. You are a wonderful father and a faithful, fun and loving husband. You are my best friend.

GRACE. You are full of life. I love to listen to your chatter and see the world through your eyes. Your energy and curiosity make me smile. I love to watch you take care of your little brother with such a nurturing and caring spirit....even when he pulls your hair :). You are a beautiful daughter of our King.

ELIJAH. I am watching you now as you smile and giggle. I am so thankful God blessed us with you! You have so much joy. You are strong, and healthy and full of life. I love our quiet times together.

FRIENDS and FAMILY. I am so thankful for your support, friendship, prayers and love. I wouldn't be who I am without you.

There is so much more to be thankful for, and I could go on and on!! But I will stop there for now. What are you thankful for?

Elijah Dedication

2011-11-17T11:53:00.000-08:00

In addition to Grace's party this past weekend, we headed to Austin for Elijah's baby dedication. It was such a special day, especially since my Papa, a pastor in Austin for about 60 years, dedicated me when I was a baby, married Cliff and I and dedicated Grace. So to say the least, it was a very special occasion with the whole family there. Cliff also stood up and said a few words about Elijah and what his name means to our family. It was a special message and our parents prayed over our son and us as parents. We are so blessed by our Lord and by our family that we have so many tools, prayers and encouragement to be the parents God has called us to. It is a huge responsibility, and during his dedication we were both reminded of the tremendous honor it is to raise children up to be servants of our King, Jesus Christ. Eljiah...you are an incredible gift from God, and we believe you have a very special purpose and voice as the prophet Elijah did in the scriptures. We are already so proud of you buddy...and always will be.

Grace's Birthday Party

2011-11-17T11:51:00.000-08:00

We celebrated Grace's birthday with a puppy themed party this past Saturday...she loves dogs, so I thought it would be fun for her. It was so fun to watch her light up when she saw the balloons, cupcakes decorations and (most importantly) all of her friends and family. She ran around squealing with excitement when everyone showed up. It was such a fun day, and I was so thankful for everyone who came. Thank you, thank you everybody!

Here are a few pictures from the party...

John Samuel

2011-11-09T06:23:00.000-08:00

This past Sunday, Cliff had the amazing privilege to speak at our close friends' baby dedication for John Samuel. It was an incredible honor to be asked to be a part of such a special day, and Cliff spent many hours preparing, praying and studying. The whole morning was perfect...nice weather, beautiful scenery, and God's presence was there. The Lord has given my husband a gift and passion to speak and his message blessed all of us tremendously. I was so proud of him and also so thankful for the opportunity. Cliff and I pray consistently for opportunities to share God's word, so this was an answer to prayer. Little John Samuel...you have awesome parents that love God and so many were there to witness them dedicate you to the Lord and His purposes. What an awesome day!

Birthday weekend

2011-11-07T12:54:00.000-08:00

You are TWO! To our little Grace....

I can't believe that it was two years ago that you were in our arms in the hospital. When I met you I had so many emotions in me. I was so excited to be your mama, but also scared that I would fail. I have to admit many of these feelings are still here because now that you are two...you are learning to understand the world, people you meet and most importantly God. I pray and hope that your daddy and I can teach you all that we know and train you in the way you should go as the Bible says. Daddy and I are so proud to be your parents. You are a caring sister, curious and creative toddler and a special child of God. May two years be the best year yet!!

Mommy and Daddy

At Chuck E Cheese with Papa, Granny, and Papa Bo

Birthday morning, November 5 at Nana and Pop's house

Priceless

Sharing birthday fun with Elijah

Growing Up

2011-11-04T11:44:00.000-07:00

Our little Grace Lynn turns two tomorrow. TWO!!! I can hardly believe it. She can even exclaim "two" while holding two Texas Tech Raider guns up. She is hitting so many milestones in her little life...

CHATTER BOX...We won't have to worry about Grace's social skills. She is a talker. She is communicating so well and learning new words every day. After very careful listening I can usually decipher what she is trying to say. It is so adorable how she decides to pronounce new words too. "Cat" is "that", "please" is "peas", "water" is "wawa", "bath" is "ba", "blue" is "boo", and the list goes on. She is also putting words together to make sentences I can understand. She still, of course, is jibber jabbering constantly which I could listen to all day. At least she knows what she is saying.

BIG GIRL BED....To add to her big girl milestones, Grace is officially sleeping in her big girl bed! Her Nana (my mom) bought her a twin bed when Elijah was born, but at that time, she didn't want anything to do with it. She has been consistently climbing out of her crib and, recently, unplugging her fan. So, I got an idea from a friend who "trapped" her toddler in her bed with pillows and blankets. It also makes it feel more enclosed like a crib. Grace fussed at first when I laid her down from a nap (I also removed her crib from the room), but she quickly got comfortable and went to sleep. She has been sleeping in her bed every since.

Fall Festivital

2011-11-03T19:21:00.000-07:00

We celebrated Halloween this year at a Fall Festival in Brenham, TX. All of the local churches came together and hosted a fall festival on the fair grounds with free food, games, and bounce houses. We dressed up Grace in her fairy costume which she was actually excited to put on! She usually complains about any we outfit dress her in...she would rather be naked. Well, we figured out quickly that she was a little young for many of the games and definitely too little for all the fun bounce houses...sorry Grace! But, that didn't stop her from having a good time. She loved eating the popcorn, checking out the costumes, dancing to the music and of course getting candy! Grace...you are so fun and easy to please. Elijah snoozed through all the festivities...

Fall Activities

2011-10-29T18:33:00.000-07:00

It finally feels like fall! I love the colder weather (who doesn't?)...we have kept our doors open, ac off and sweatshirts on. It has seemed like a long time coming with the dry and hot summer we had, but I am so glad the cold weather is here! We have been celebrating fall regardless of the weather the past two weeks with pumpkin projects, play dates, walks, football, and church activities. Cliff even slipped in and tiled our bathroom floor! Here are a couple of pics of our fall festivities.

Pumpkin carving with friends

Pumpkin outfits made by Mimi

Pumpkin Painting

My husbands impressive tile job!

Rain!

2011-10-14T12:06:00.000-07:00

So, any of you who live in Texas know that we finally received a down pour this past Sunday! It was the most beautiful sound to my ears. I can not remember the last time I heard and witnessed that much rain. It was glorious!

We also were able to finally use Grace's toddler raincoat and boots. It was a gift from her great aunt in Cali, and she has always asked to put it on. Now she finally was big enough and had a reason too! She loved her outfit especially the boots which she wears now whether it is rainy or dry. She also loved the rain although she made sure to stay out of the mud and dirt...she likes to stay clean. :)

Here are more pictures from our week. Making more cookies. This has been a weekly or sometimes more activity. This time we got out our matching aprons that my cousin made. Grace is posing as usual. So precious!

I also had to take a picture of Elijah in his Texas Tech gear. He is also using his Boppy to sit in which he enjoys because he can see what his big sister is up to.

Here is Grace mowing the lawn after the rain we had. You can see some green grass. Woohoo!

Off to church with Daddy! What a handsome man...

3 months

2011-10-01T20:34:00.000-07:00

Our sweet little boy is 3 months. He is communicating so much. It is hard to remember what Grace was doing at this stage, but he is really trying to talk. He tries to form words while grinning, cooing and giggling. It is so adorable, I could just talk to him all day. Well, for his 3 month birthday and football game day, the kids were decked out in their new Texas Tech outfits from Mimi (Cliff's mom). Texas Tech also had a win! Wreck Em!

Creativity

2011-10-01T20:18:00.000-07:00

I love watching our little girl create. It is so much fun to watch her use her hands to make something new. This week I thought we would try a few new projects...

Play-dough. Well, this isn't her first time to play with it, but with the help of her friend, Calvin and Izzy, she used play-dough to make spaghetti, grapes, bananas and all sorts of yum yum goodies. She enjoyed pretending to cook and didn't eat her creation!

Painting. I tried paints last winter, but she really wasn't interested. This time she squealed with delight, as I set up an art area outside. She loved mixing the paint, using her paintbrush and fingers to decorate cards, and eventually painting herself.

Cookies. Recently, she has been studying her kiddie cookbooks she received as a gift from her first birthday (thanks Suzanne!). She has been really interested in the cookie recipes...well really just the pictures. So, when we bought the Pillsbury cookies at the store, she was more than excited, exclaiming, "coochieees!!"

I know, I know, I didn't do the recipe in her cookbook and we will, but I decided to start with something easy for both of us to begin with. She had a blast with every step...

Mixing...

Popsicle sticks...

Trying to feed Elijah

Waiting for the cookies in the oven...

Icing and Sprinkles...

Beautiful job Grace!!

Morning Smoothie

2011-09-22T12:22:00.000-07:00

1/2 Cup Yogurt
1/2 Cup Milk
1 Banana
1/2 bag frozen fruit
Blend and....

Yum! Yum! Delicious Mama! This is actually my smoothie she is finishing after she slurped down her own. Cutie pie...

Precious Kiddos

2011-09-13T09:41:00.000-07:00

Here are some more recent pics of our wonderful, precious kiddos. Grace is really learning to pose and say "cheese" for each photo. She has so much personality. She also helped make the 2 month sign for Elijah that she was very proud of . They are such a blessing!

Poor buddy

Cheese!!!

Watching the US Open

This is all Grace's creation. Poor Emma.

Wildfires

2011-09-06T11:41:00.000-07:00

"Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied."

Matthew 5:1-6

Horrifying. Devastating. Tragic. The wildfires across Texas and surrounding us leave my heart aching. Aching for the people who are hurting in so many ways. I have seen so much destruction on the news over the past few years, but nothing has hit closer to home. Maybe its because Bastrop is a place we frequently visit, maybe it is the smell of burning wood in the air, or maybe it is the eerie haze in the sky that hurts my eyes....but whatever the case these wildfires leave my family watching wide eyed as the fire continues to eat up the land without any resolve...

So yesterday my husband explained he couldn't sit and watch. He had to do something. But what to you do when you are not a first responder, fire fighter, or red cross volunteer? My husband began making phone calls hoping there was a church or organization he could jump in and help serve. He finally connected with one church that welcomed his company, so we gathered what little we had to donate and he drove off to Bastrop with a friend from church while I watched the kiddos at home.

Not knowing exactly what they were going to do when the got there, my husband and his friend dropped off the donations at the church contact and drove to the Catholic Church where hundreds of families were seeking shelter from the fire. Hoping they would let them in, the church received them with welcome arms. They gathered some gospel tracks and began talking to the people inside hearing story after story of homes and job sites burned. Some with and without insurance. Some not knowing if they would still have a job. Some losing everything they own. Some not knowing if they have a home to go back to. They were so hungry for encouragement and prayers. They welcomed any smile, any hug and anyone they could talk to. One lady from the church cried when they left just because their presence alone was an encouragement.

My husband didn't do anything special. He didn't organize a big crowd, donations or fire relief. He simply showed up, encouraged and shared Jesus.

I know there are so many ways we can show our support for the victims of this fire, and I know I become quickly discouraged because I feel so helpless. But if nothing else, our compassion speaks volumes. Whether in person or through prayers, these people need our love, need our encouragement and need to know someone cares. We would be amazed what a difference it would make.

2 months!

2011-09-01T10:48:00.000-07:00

Time goes by faster and faster. Elijah Ray is 2 months today, and he is growing up way too fast. I tell people often that I try to cherish every little moment I have with him because they went by so fast with Grace. He is so much bigger, longer and more alert. We went to the doctor today and he is 12.6 lbs and 23 inches. He is in the 50 percentile, but he seems so big to me. He is no longer looking like a newborn. Why are we so silly as moms? We want them to grow up healthy and strong, but it is bittersweet when they do. We want them to hurry up and crawl, walk, and go off to school but when they do we are so sad that that time is gone. I am starting to appreciate more and more every moment I have with both of them. I quickly forgot how precious each stage was with Grace, but now with two, Elijah reminds me to cherish every day because it goes by soooo fast! Thank you Lord for a healthy, happy, alert and smiling 2 month old. Happy 2 months Elijah!

Bath Time

2011-08-29T12:04:00.000-07:00

Grace loves bath time. She loves practicing her swimming skills, giving her bath toys a good cleaning, splashing water all over her, me and the the bathroom floor, and trying to sing rubbery ducky with her toys. After a long day, it is always a fun time we both look forward to.

The other day, Cliff was away to a bible study and Elijah was crying in his crib during our designated bath time. I had a great idea...it was time for a brother and sister bath! That way I could keep in eye on both of them. Well, I wasn't the only one excited, Grace squealed with joy when she understood Elijah was joining her. We sat him in his tub and Grace helped me wash him while she also shared her bath toys. Elijah sat and watched carefully as her big sister showed him the "ins and outs" of bath time. Pretty soon, Grace, your little brother will be able to splash and play with you in the bath. Until then, you so sweetly take care of your little brother.

Dance

2011-08-17T11:11:00.000-07:00

Grace has been fascinating with dancing. She spins around singing "dance" as she makes up her own moves. We just had to capture this precious girl on video.

Days at Papa's house

2011-08-10T12:36:00.000-07:00

Last week we took our last summer trip to Austin for one of Cliff's basketball camps. Grace LOVES going to her ALL of her grandparents' homes. So the car ride there when she was having a hard time we would remind her we were going to Papa's and her whining would quickly turn into a grin. Papa (my dad) took some time off to spend with the kids, and we had a blast. Her some pictures from the week.


Swinging on the big swing. Her first time by herself! We were monitoring close but it didn't prevent a small fall backwards.

Learning to play catch. Her new friend was much better at participating. Grace sometimes would throw the ball back and other times take the ball away for herself.

This was one of those times she took a break from playing catch. Sometimes is hard to trust new friends with your stuff. Right?

Her first trip to Toys R Us. This car ride was before we even entered the store. It took us a while to convince her that there was so much more to see.

Our little buddy as he meets new friend, Caroline. Our good friends, Kristin and Phillip stopped by to visit. He missed the introduction.

Any ideas?

2011-08-10T12:12:00.000-07:00

So I have this beautiful stain glass in our kitchen window. I just love looking at it in the foreground of our backyard backdrop while I am doing the dishes. I have another one just like it that I want to put in our bathroom window. The only problem is the window is shaped exactly the same, so without any blinds on the bottom window panel our bathroom bodies are available for our neighbors to see. Any ideas of what I can do with the bottom window panel?

More family photos

2011-08-04T20:58:00.000-07:00

Hooray!! These are so great! Thanks Paige!

Check out more at http://paigemeyerphoto.blogspot.com/2011/07/holdridge-family-brenham-tx-family.html

Honeymoon # 2...kind of :)

2011-07-29T13:38:00.000-07:00

What an awesome week! We just returned this Wednesday night from a four day trip in Arlington/Fort Worth. Cliff had coaching school, and we decided to make a vacation out of it, so with the help of some family members we stayed in a super nice hotel and had help with little Grace who stayed in Marble Falls with Mimi, Papa Fish, and Uncle Matt. Elijah joined us, and we went all over DFW. In addition to the coaching seminars, we visited the Stockyards in Fort Worth, TCU, downtown Fort Worth (which is so beautiful!!), our old friends from Dallas, my old work, Joe T. Garcia's (amazing Mexican food!), and enjoyed the pool, hot tub, and yummy breakfast buffet/feast at our hotel.

Cliff and I haven't had a trip together since Grace came along, so it was such a treat. I even spent one afternoon while Cliff was listening to speakers walking around the mall and Target for three hours. I can't even remember the last time I went to a mall. I actually went through every aisle of Target too. I may be crazy, but I have to admit it was really fun. Elijah just took everything in, mostly slept and chilled out in his car seat. I am still amazed how good he is.

Even though we had some much needed marriage time, we did miss Grace a ton. Each time we would see something she would have enjoyed...the zoo, museums, cattle, pool...we wished she was there. It is amazing how these little people became such a part of you! Your always thinking about them. I just wish we could figure out a way to make long car trips more enjoyable for her!

We had so much fun, that I forgot to take pictures. These are the only two...

At Joe T. Garcia's Mexican Restaurant. Yummy!!

Just Chillin

Elijah Newborn Pics

2011-07-26T15:06:00.000-07:00

Here are a few precious pics of Elijah! You can check out more at http://paigemeyerphoto.blogspot.com/2011/07/newborn-session-baby-elijah.html.

Kids in Color

2011-07-26T08:57:00.000-07:00

Last week I started a new bible study with some moms at our church. We introduced ourselves and then our children by drawing them in color. The colors we choose represented their personalities. I thought is was a very creative and effective way to describe Grace and Elijah, so I thought I would share it with you, so you can get to know our little pumpkins better!!

GRACE

She is 100% girl (notice the purple and pinks). She loves to emulate mommy by helping with Baby Elijah, carrying her purse, pushing her baby in the stroller, getting the broom out to sweep the floors, cleaning up the floors with napkins when she spills her milk, and playing with makeup. She isn't crazy about clothes yet, but that could be a good thing. :)

I had to use marker instead of pencil or crayon because her personality is bold and loud. She is high energy, goofy, sometimes high maintenance, extremely curious, super smart, doesn't meet a stranger, and the life of the party. She likes to terrorize Emma the dog, run and scream with delight throughout the house, play rough with her dad, throw balls and toys, and get messy in the dirt.

There is a serene side to her also. She can listen, obey (at times) and be so very thoughtful. She loves to pray and reminds us several times throughout dinner and our day. She is an incredible blessing and challenges us daily to be better parents and better people.

ELIJAH

Well, he is only three weeks old, but he still is so different even as a baby. He is incredibly laid back, calm, and sleeps incredibly well. He is an easy, easy baby. I look forward to seeing the little man he will be!

Having Two

2011-07-21T20:00:00.000-07:00

So Cliff and I have only been at this for less than a month, but we honestly agree that two kids are better than one. It is hard to explain, but it was like we didn't realize what we were missing until he came along. I guess it is also easier the second time around because we are much more relaxed. Grace also has another person to think about, share with and take care of. It has been really good for her and her development. She is handling it pretty well too. She is quick to respond to his cries offering toys, pacifiers and blankets. She has even tried to pull my shirt down and exclaim EAT!, so the baby can nurse. I mean she is a smart one. Let's just hope that doesn't happen in public! Elijah is growing fast and is already up to over 8 lbs from 7 lb 11 oz at birth. He is calm, cool and laid back. Nothing seems to really phase or bother him unless he is hungry. He is an easy baby. We are having fun, and I know it has been so enjoyable because Cliff has been home. Just a few more weeks and school is back in session, so we are cherishing each day we have.

Wearing their little brother and big sister shirts from Aunt Missa

Grace loves to brush her teeth...rather chew on her toothbrush. The cute dressed was made by her Mimi, Cliff's mom.

Elijah's matching outfit

Grace going golfing

2011-07-14T14:37:00.000-07:00

We decided to take family out last night with both Grace and Elijah. It was $1 putt-putt, so who could turn that down? We had my sister, Charissa, her husband, Matt and my Dad in town to all show Grace how to play golf. It was so much fun. Grace's main goal became picking up everyone's ball on the green and giving it back to them. She thought she was being very helpful. Elijah came too and slept peacefully in his stroller...he is such a good baby! Here are some pics from the night, thanks to her uncle Matt!

Elijah - Week One

2011-07-07T14:46:00.000-07:00

Elijah Ray!

2011-07-03T10:39:00.000-07:00

Elijah Ray Holdridge arrived Friday, July 1 at 12:21 PM measuring 7lbs 11.5oz and 20.25 inches. He is absolutely perfect! We are so blessed!

Coming soon!

2011-06-30T20:44:00.000-07:00

Our little buddy will be coming any day now! The contractions haven't stopped, and I am still surprised he is still in the belly. I will be induced this Saturday, if I don't go into labor before then. I did find the mystery battery charger and wanted to post some pictures. Our sweet friends threw us a baby shower in honor of Elijah Ray, so...baby boy...here is your mommy pregnant and celebrating your arrival! Love you little buddy.

Adventures in our new home

2011-06-30T20:33:00.000-07:00

We are settling into our new home! We made some updates, and it is beautiful, cozy and cool. I will post pictures soon!

We have had a very eventful two weeks trying to get furniture moved in, updates completed, and pictures hung, but we also have been having some fun! Cliff took this week off to help get everything ready, and the three of us had a ball. We took some video of Grace enjoying her new home, and wanted to share it with you! Enjoy!

Contractions, House Remodel, and little Grace

2011-06-22T13:44:00.000-07:00

So, I am frustrated that I can't find my camera battery charger among many things in boxes these days. I would like to take pictures of my very pregnant belly, so I can show our little Elijah what mommy looked like. I would like to take before and afters of the new house because the new floors are coming into today and Cliff and his brother have done so many updates and worked so hard! I would like to take more and more pictures of Grace, well because she is just adorable and growing so fast. Oh, if I could only find that silly camera battery charger in one of many mystery boxes.

I am in a hotel room in Brenham, while our new floors are being put in, and Grace is peacefully sleeping in the hotel crib. My mind has a few moments to reflect, and I find myself a little unsettled, extremely grateful, excited, anxious, tired and uncomfortable. How could I be feeling this range of emotions? Most of our furniture and belongings are in our garage, we have been traveling from Marble Falls to Austin to Brenham to hotels in the midst of contractions, our poor dog still hasn't stayed in our new home, my husband has way too much going on, and Grace doesn't know what to think. But sitting here in the this moment I am actually amazed that I am calm. Maybe it is because the room is quiet or maybe it is because God has me right where he wants me. Where my daily plans are always changing, where I have no control over tomorrow, where I could birth this baby any day now, where I get to see my husband glow as he preaches the Word, where I am desperate for God's guidance with Grace, where I get to sit in AC, and where He is providing for our every need. My to do list seems to get longer every day and seldom do I get to cross anything off. I am way late on birthday, father's day, and baby shower gifts. I feel naked without being able to use my camera. I am way inconsistent with potty training...well given up on it right now. I feel hopeless as I look at boxes and projects that I can't do anything about because I am pregnant. But maybe my plans, my to dos, my agenda isn't always what is on God's heart? Why can't I remember that late at night when anxiety kicks in? Each day, I watch Him put things into place and I watch His plans prevail. He has given my body plenty of rest. He has brought family and friends to come help at the most unexpected times. He has given me such sweet and quality time with Grace. He has given me precious time in His Word. He has given me time with my husband in the midst of his busy schedule that I have cherished so deeply. Thank you Lord for taking care of me.

Swim Lessons

2011-06-09T11:49:00.000-07:00

Grace began toddler swim lessons this week!! I have been looking forward to this for a while, and was excited to get started! Grace had not been to an adult pool since last summer, so it was a like new experience for her.

The main goal of the week was getting her used to the water. They had them get the back of their heads wet, blow bubbles, cruise on their stomachs and kick their feet, and try to float on their backs (with the help of mama). It was funny to see Grace react. She squealed, "wee" as I pulled her around on her stomach. She blew a few bubbles but mainly drank some water. She continually wanted out of the pool, so she could throw more pool toys in the water. And she fought, with the other toddlers, for a popular basketball pool toy. Overall, I would say it was a successful week! :)

My dad helped take pictures yesterday to help show her first swim lesson adventure. Enjoy!

Chasing after another ball in the water. This was her favorite thing to do!

Giving Dad a quick look. She also loved this little Elmo pool toy.

Practicing floating on the back. Grace didn't like this position at all as you can tell.

The infamous basketball that all toddlers were fighting over.

Grace riding on my back. She thought this was fun for a little while.

New Car - Provisions, provisions!

2011-06-08T14:30:00.000-07:00

We received a new car! Yes, paid for, clean, safe, low mileage, and reliant! I am hesitant to share the whole story behind the car because I will have to be somewhat vulnerable to our actions, prayer life and needs. I have some pride, so please bear with me.

Two years ago God laid it on our hearts to give a way our Mistsubushi Eclipse to a couple in need of a car. Please know it wasn't easy, especially for me. My family bought me that car, and I didn't even feel like I had the right to give it away. I also didn't think we had the money to give away a car like that. I struggled for a few months, but finally let it go when I realized that everything I had was God's and it belonged to him. It was a blessing to give in that way...it really blessed us to know we were able to help our friends. We didn't have any expectations in return.

Last week we received a phone call from a family member offering to buy us a used Mitsubushi Galant. It was definitely out of the blue as we never asked for a car or money or any help in this area. Our current car, the Mazda, has had several issues. It has been in and out of the shop this last Spring and we have put a thousand or two into it just to keep it running. It has very high mileage, so you can expect it to break down as it has been. Since January, Cliff and I have been praying for a new car. Yes, we pray for all of our needs as a family. We have also begun to save, research and review different game plans on how we can buy a used car. With the purchase of our new home, we have had to wait to really seriously consider this purchase. We have been patient but have continued to pray.

Our new Mitsubushi is a family size vehicle. It is the same pearl white color as our Eclipse, but newer, in better shape and very roomy. It was like God had upgraded the Eclipse we gave away. God had provided the same brand and color car just to remind us that He was behind the gift. We were extremely overwhelmed by his goodness. He knows my heart, my prayers, our needs, and my struggle with holding onto what I think is mine. Despite all of those things, he still takes care of me and all of my needs. I hope you read this and know that God is faithful, he does provide, and he will always take care of us. It also is a reminder that all of our possessions belong to God, and it is useless to hold on too tightly to any of them. And for those who purchased the car for us...I know God will richly bless you for this gift!

"And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus." Phillipians 4:19.

Crazy days and thankful

2011-06-02T18:01:00.000-07:00

To say the least, the last few days have been very busy, eventful, and unpredictable. Our closing date was pushed back again, so we moved our entire home into our new garage on Tuesday and have been staying in a temporary attic apartment. The week before, Grace, Cliff and I (yes! Grace helped too!) worked on getting the house organized to move and finalizing Cliff's last week of school "to dos". We were very exhausted but motivated to move into a new home, so we were focused. Cliff's mom and brother came in to help us finish and Tuesday my dad, 8 people from our church, and some free trailers moved all of our belongings and hauled it out to the new home. I was a zombie at that point (well still am?) but was amazed with the help we received. I mean, we moved in less than 3 hours! That includes packing up and unloading into our new garage. We did have some bumps along the way. One of the trailer blankets caught on fire shredding pieces of fabric all across the highway. Fire trucks and ambulances quickly showed up, but THANKFULLY no one was hurt and all of our belongings were safe. Later I found out that two gas tanks were recently removed from that trailer...it could have been a lot worse. My dad also was stopped by a cop about a block from our home...luckily leaving with only a warning. Tuesday night after the move was complete, Cliff Grace and I returned to our temporary home...an attic apartment in our realtor's office. Yes, we have a fantastic realtor who offered a free place to stay. And we walked in welcomed by a goodie package with food for the week. I was overwhelmed. Yes overwhelmingly tired but so thankful. Between our family, friends and realtor we were totally taken care of. It is amazing how God provides in the details to remind me that he is always capable to take care of us. Well, I am sitting in our temporary home still waiting on the closing date, listening to Grace sleep, setting up painters and flooring and wondering, how in the world did we get here? Brenham, attic apartment and all I am so thankful to be here. Thank you Lord for always providing even in the midst of some crazy days.

Recent Pics

2011-05-27T11:58:00.000-07:00

The last week has been rather crazy with packing and getting everything in order to move. Grace and I have been having fun though...organizing different items, climbing in and out of boxes, getting our fingers stuck with tape, and drawing pretty pictures on every box we can find. I do have a few pictures from our week including some events we attended. Enjoy!

Coloring with markers is messy. I am giving her crayons now, but she isn't having nearly as much fun.

We did get dressed up for Cliff's end of the year Athletic Banquet. I love these two people.

We also attended a birthday party last weekend where Grace was able to feed the ducks. She was a little reluctant at first.

She was really studying these ducks. Wasn't sure if they were safe or not.

She started to get the hang of it after a while. She even enjoyed some of the bread herself. :)

New Home

2011-05-18T10:05:00.000-07:00

We are buying a home! Well, we are set to close at the end of the month, so we still have a few details to wrap up. If all goes as planned, we will be in our new home in June! Hooray! I don't think I have been so ready to move. It seems like the last month has gone by so slowly in my anticipation. Anyone else experienced such impatience? I consistently pray to focus on the day at hand, but I feel my mind drifting towards paint colors, flooring, furniture placement, and home organization. It know its important to make decisions about the house and try to be as organized as I can especially with our little Elijah coming in July, but I don't want to miss out on today either! We are coming up on the last month where it is just Grace and us. Oh, how I want to invest and cherish these days. I am trying daily to focus but it seems the distractions and impatience continues to come. I pray that I can surrender all of these details and anticipation to God, so I can soak in every moment with our little pumpkin. In the end, what is really important?

Grace and Cliff cruzing in Lowe's as we check out flooring

Grace checking out her new room. Me sporting my 7 month prego belly.

More Easter Pics

2011-05-06T10:25:00.000-07:00

I received these photos from the Easter Egg Hunt we attended and had to show them off. Yes, she is kissing a statue. It was just her size, and I guess she needed to spread the love. How cute!

Franklin, NC

2011-05-06T10:21:00.000-07:00

We traveled to Franklin, North Carolina this past weekend for my sister's wedding. It was a beautifully blessed event, and I so wish I had pictures to show of the bride, groom and flower girl! While I am waiting on the photos, I thought I would share some interesting pictures and stories of our travels.

Arriving to our destination last week was a little scary. As many of you know, we traveled through the storm and tornadoes that swept through Georgia, Alabama, and the Carolinas. Our flight was delayed out of Dallas giving us some time to miss some of it. When we arrived in Atlanta late Wednesday night we still had a 3 hour drive up to Franklin, North Carolina. We had to make a pit stop for the pregnant lady and landed upon the first original Chick-fil-a. I don't think I have seen Cliff so excited...

As we left Chick-fil-a, after buying a few goodies including a some stuffed cows, we received weather reports from family thinking we had missed the majority of the storm. I was a little relieved, but still nervous about our drive. Cliff and Dad were ready to see a tornado...crazies. As we were driving about 20 minutes outside of Franklin, we were stopped by parked cars and debris. A tornado had just passed through this area and the roads were impassible. Praise the Lord, we were not at the scene any earlier. Sometimes delays are God's way of protecting us from the disaster that awaits. Please keep the families affected by the storms in your prayers.

We did finally arrive to our destination the following day after spending the night in a motel where the tornado hits. Even though I did have dreams of tornadoes all night, we did get some much needed rest. Especially Grace. Here are some photos and events I do have from the wedding weekend.

Grace loved the water but refused the nail polish

At the bridal luncheon with the beautiful bride

Grace checking out the animals at the rehearsal dinner

Eating dessert on top of the Westin hotel in Atlanta

Happy Easter!

2011-04-24T19:29:00.000-07:00

Chores

2011-04-20T18:20:00.000-07:00

I don't really love chores. Laundry, dishes and especially the bathroom are chores I really have to motivate myself to do. I would much rather be playing outside, going for a walk, or having a tea party with Grace. But, who really loves chores?

I began showing Grace how to help with chores. I definitely want to equip her to help around the house, but she really wants to help. We washed the car and she had her own rag to wash as well. We cleaned the bathroom and she cleaned her bath toys (well kind of). We made brownies and she helped me mix and eat the mix. We put up the dishes and she handed me the silverware. We put some items in the trash together. We gave Emma, the dog, a bath and she played in the water and tried to dry her off with a towel (well more like chased her with a towel). I folded clothes and she unfolded them.

I watched my daughter enjoy these simple, mundane tasks and realized that we can make anything fun if we change perspective. Any chore can become an adventure and opportunity to learn through a toddler's eyes. When I invite her along, I begin to see the same tasks through her lens as well.

Helping me make brownies

Making sure the dog is dry after her bath

First Easter Egg Hunt

2011-04-18T11:32:00.000-07:00

Grabbing the big eggs first.

On the move. I can already tell she is a competitor.
She went after those eggs quicker than
any other kid her age.

She knew what to do with the eggs.
She filled her basket full!

Switching to Blogspot

2011-04-18T11:11:00.000-07:00

Okay...so I have given in! I have decided to join the masses on blogspot and delete our mac blog. Why you ask? Well, the main reason is financial. Yes, we had to pay some for our mac blog and blogspot is free as many of you know. We are trimming our budget as we get ready for the new baby. Understandable. So, this is an easy trim. Also, I kind of feel all alone with my mac blog with no community of fellow bloggers to share it with. Finally, blogspot just has more. Maybe I am not using the mac blog to its full potential, but without knowing HTML, I haven't found nearly as creative of templates as I have found with blogspot. So, the old blog will be live for a little while until I switch everything over. Enjoy!